When your bed feels better than the gym šŸ˜…

Why I stopped motivating myself with the mirror, and started doing it for my brain

Can I be honest with you for a second?

Staying consistent with movement is not always easy.

Especially in the winter.

When it’s dark early.
Cold.
You’re tired.
Work feels heavier.
And your bed feels extra comfortable. šŸ˜…

Some days, getting dressed and going to the gym feels like… a lot.

And I’ve definitely had those weeks where I’m like,
ā€œI’ll start again on Monday.ā€
(We all know how that goes.)

But something shifted for me when I learned what movement actually does to the brain.

Not just the body.

The Thing That Changed Everything for Me

There’s something called BDNF - Brain-Derived Neurotrophic Factor.

Think of it as support for your brain’s ability to:

  • Stay focused

  • Regulate emotions

  • Handle stress

  • Learn and adapt

  • Feel mentally steady

And one of the best ways to increase it?

Movement.

So now, when I don’t feel motivated, I don’t think:

ā€œI need to look a certain way.ā€

I think:

ā€œI’m taking care of my brain today.ā€

That feels different.

Gentler.
More supportive.
More sustainable.

What Actually Helps Me Stay Active (In Real Life)

Not in a ā€œperfect routineā€ way.
In a real, human way.

Walking

On tired days, I walk.

Outside.
On the treadmill.
With a podcast.

It always helps clear my head.

Strength Training

Lifting reminds me:
ā€œI’m strong. I can handle things.ā€

That confidence carries into life.

Short Intense Sessions

Once in a while, I push.

Not every day.
Not obsessively.

Just enough to reset my system.

Gentle Days

Stretching. Mobility. Yoga.

These days matter too.

Rest is part of consistency.

Trying New Things

New routines = new brain connections.

Novelty wakes your brain up.

And Nutrition Matters Too šŸ’›

Movement supports BDNF.

But so does what we eat.

And in the winter, when I want comfort and energy, I lean on simple ā€œbrain foodā€ recipes that don’t feel like work.

Here’s one of my favorites.

🫐 My Go-To Brain-Boosting Blueberry Smoothie

This supports BDNF with antioxidants, omega-3s, and polyphenols - and it tastes like a treat.

Ingredients:

  • 1 cup frozen blueberries 🫐

  • ½ banana šŸŒ

  • 1 tbsp almond butter

  • 1 tbsp ground flax or chia seeds

  • 1 cup unsweetened almond milk (or milk of choice)

  • Optional: scoop of protein powder

Blend & enjoy šŸ’™

That’s it.

No stress. No fancy prep.

Just brain support in a cup.

The Truth About Consistency

Consistency doesn’t mean ā€œnever missing.ā€

It means:
Coming back.
Not quitting.
Being kind to yourself after off days.

Some seasons you’ll do more.
Some seasons you’ll do less.

Both are normal.

Especially in Winter…

Winter is hard.

Less sunlight.
Less energy.
More couch time. šŸ˜…

If you’re struggling right now, you’re not lazy.

You’re human.

Start small.

10 minutes.
A walk.
A stretch.
One smoothie.
One choice for yourself.

It all adds up.

Why I Keep Choosing Movement

I don’t move because I’m perfect.

I move because it helps me feel:

Clearer.
Calmer.
More grounded.
More like myself.

It helps me show up better for my work, my daughter, my life… and for you.

That matters to me.

One Last Reminder

If today all you can do is:

āœ” Take a walk
āœ” Stretch for 5 minutes
āœ” Make a smoothie
āœ” Show up imperfectly

That counts.

Your brain is still benefiting.

And I’m proud of you for trying.

Always.

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Tee McConnell
Founder, The Human Side of Innovationā„¢
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